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The Best – Existential Observations

For human beings, the Need for Recognition of their one’s Creator Individuality goes beyond Being Alive (breathing, eating, and sleeping), activities necessary to keep the Etheric-Physical Body alive.

The parents-children Existential Mirroring already takes place during pregnancy. Leaving aside moralistic issues, from an Existential point of view, when one or both parents do not want to have children, or maybe not at that particular time, an unwanted pregnancy, carried to term, can be experienced as a non-recognition of the Needs of the mother or father.

Having a father who succumbs to his wife, who never defends her daughter, and a mother who neglects her and favors the children who come after her, the protagonist of the story spends her whole life striving to reach the maximum of her potential and skills, to demonstrate that she deserves attention and affection.

Once she became an adult and a successful woman, the Need to receive the Recognition from her mother would have no particular reason to be felt. However, she was not able to turn the page because she continued to relate to her mother as if she were still that little unwanted child, who had experienced the Risk of being abandoned, beaten up, and, potentially, even killed.

It should be clarified that children do not perceive the Surrounding Existential Reality as adults do.

The Infantile One-Triune Union (Creator-Parents and Infantile creature), Staying Alive, Existential Death, and Mirroring with the Creator-Parents, are some of the Fundamental Rules that most affect the Choices made in childhood. Consequently, as the protagonist of the story, remains in the Past Space-Time, even as an adult (Of Age Infantile Adult) she does everything to please her mother in the hope of being Recognized and kept alive like when she was a child (To Stay Alive).

The death of her mother eliminates this possibility, keeping her stuck in the Past Space-Time. The solution for the Of Age Infantile Adult/child is to get sick and join a new family, that of Disease  (Disease Social Family Program), and hope (Emotion-Sentiment Vital-Energy) to receive the recognition (Self-Recognition) she never received from her parents (Private Family Program).

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Extract from the book “We Cannot Escape from Ourselves”.

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