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The Birdwatcher – Existential Observations

Many of us might have perceived the state of mind of a child or a parent, an acquaintance, or even a stranger, without exchanging any words, only by looking at their eyes or their posture. Sometimes, we can guess the underlying intention of a sarcastic, ironic, naive, funny, or appreciative remark from the tone of voice that is used, and, consequently, feel a wave of tension or relaxation spreading through our body. This perceptual capacity is due to the codes of conduct in the Human Existential Project, the Private Family (family customs and habits), and the Social Family (social and cultural customs and habits) Programs.

In addition to sight, smell, sound, and touch, we are influenced  by the Etheric Energy, which permeates all things and living beings, and allows the transmission of the information contained in the thought-forms of those who produce it (intentions, ideas, thoughts), influencing themselves and others.

As it will be discussed in Part Two of this book, moving from the Private Couple Program to the Private Family (having children) Program, completely changes the Priorities, and in many cases, it destabilizes the couple's balance, increasing the tensions already present. As it happens to many of them, married or not, if they do not have the strength to separate, the arrival of the first child – wanted or apparently unplanned – creates the Need to motivate their relationship with an event that makes them find a meeting point. This Existential Strategy does not solve the problems of the Private Couple, become a Familial Couple in the meantime, it only puts them off temporarily, in view of the Priorities of the new Private Family Program (pregnancy, changes at home, financial and work issues).

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Extract from the book “We Cannot Escape from Ourselves”.

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