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In this story, a couple finds themselves at the crossroads of their relationship, based on continuous conflict (Contraposition Variable).

Instead of ending the marriage - the Infantile Private Couple Program - they implement a Private Family Program, also Infantile, because they have children to seek recognition through them (Self-Recognition).

The discovery of having conceived two girl twins increases the conflict in the relationship, as it displeases both parents: the father who hoped for a son, and the mother, who wanted more respect from her husband, considers the arrival of these two daughters, as a further loss of attention to herself, and the cause of her husband's disappointment for not having fulfilled his wish for a male child.

Delegating to children the Responsibility to solve one’s Need for Self-Recognition never has the desired result.

And so, already during pregnancy, the two girls become a burden for both parents.

It has already been explained how the fetus constantly receives information from its Creator Parents (Infantile One-Triune Union, Adaptation to the Territory and Existential Mirroring), and so a conflict of theirs becomes his conflict.

Because the mother has lived her life underestimating herself and not being considered by others, it is difficult for her to take Control of the situation. As the months go by, however, she starts to consider her daughters as possible allies, in her personal redemption path and as a slap in the face for her husband.

The doubts of the mother, daughters yes – daughters no, however, affect the quantity and quality of nutrients that reach the placenta, reducing the duration of pregnancy, increasing the risk of spontaneous abortion. A solution morally and socially convenient for her, because she wouldn't be blamed if it happened. Once again the woman delegates to others, her daughters and the doctors, the Responsibility to decide on her behalf.

The girls manage to Stay Alive, are born prematurely and put in an incubator, before their mother can even see them and hold them in her arms.

Both newborns generate a new Infantile Individual Rule:

• "My Creator-Parents no longer agree to keep me alive (Stay Alive) and they don't Recognize me anymore. There is a new External Territory (incubator, nutrition, medicines) that keeps me alive, but in whom I do not Recognize myself (the doctors and the nurses)”.

 

It should be remembered that these are not intellectual reasoning, but a knowledge/information based on the Fundamental Rules of the Human Project, present since conception in the Bio Informatics Structure of the fetus.

 

You might think that being twins they live the events and develop in the same way, but that's never the case, not even for the homozygous ones. In their case, during pregnancy, one developed physically more than the other.

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Extract from the book “We Cannot Escape from Ourselves”.

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